Interview with Jenna, Cris, Mel, Bonnie and Ashley
JM: Did you find it difficult to get along with other inmates? Please give examples to explain why you did or didn't. Jenna: Not really, I actually met some really good people in there (despite
where we were). There are always going to be bullies, so you have
some people who talk loud and bad. But I didn't encounter anyone I
couldn't handle, I think it different on the men's side though. Cris: NO Mel: No. I kept my mouth shut and my head down, and
didnt do anything unusual to attract attention
to myself and I was not bothered. Bonnie: More so with staff. Ashley: No. I'm an observant people person anyway, so
it's really just common sense. You will see
people who clearly have drug/or alcohol problems
effecting their behavior, and people who are
used to being there who already know
the 'ropes.' Don't take anything personally.
It's not about YOU. Remember, you're there for
a reason too, so you DO have something in common
will the other people. Just be human and
patient. Better to say nothing if not sure what
to say. When food comes, lots of opportunities
for interaction happen. You'll want to be alert
for what you're willing to give away-and to
whom. Like anywhere in life, being polite and
respectful and not too quick to judge other goes
a long way.
JM: What types of things did you have to do to avoid problems or fights with other inmates? Jenna: Well I stood up for myself, and when felt the person wouldn't quit
yapping I would walk away with words (arguing is a waste of time).
The best thing I did was find a couple of really good ladies who
were into reading the bible, don't let that fool you they stood up
for me as well. Cris: SLEEP Mel: Kept aware of procedures, (when to line up, when
to be awake for headcount) to make sure my
actions didn't affect the entire tank. Bonnie: Sleep. Ashley: be aware of 'space.' It's crowded, so people
claim their territory. If you are there short-
time, there's no sense in challenging anyone for
something as silly as a seat in certain place.
Just let it go. Respect others' space and
property.
JM: Were you able to choose an inmate as your cellmate if you knew one? How often would your cellmate(s) change? Jenna: No you were put where you were told, if you told them you had
health issues or needed certain accommodations maybe. Cris: There are no choose in jail. you do what the
staff say or they make you life HELL Bonnie: No, I was not able to make any decisions for
myself, including contacting my attourney. Ashley: no